Swiss’ blog

Yess, YES

I am the BIG 2 1 today

How does it feels, it feels good

finally im legal in all parts of the world haha

I am older yes, but i see it as 21 years younger

I dont feel old, im maturing and becoming more and more independent

Im loving it

Turning 21 is always a big hype, you have to celebrate it in style

Do something you will remember

Something to tell the kids in 10 years time

This is how i looked at that age, this is what i did etc....

Unfortunately birthdays come only once a year

But

I definetly choose to celebrate mine

and

Thank God for another year of my life, he has given me

More time to work hard, play hard and achieve the things

I want an desire in life

I am happy at this age

I dont feel like a big woman yet but

I will get there slowly but surely

The big 21 as they say Coming Of Age

Indeed

I agree, its not the same as being 18

Its on a total different level

Its when you start to realise how life can be and

When you have to work to make money

No longer relying on Mummy and Daddy

Like the Good Ol' Dayz

Its all Good though,

Im happy

Im well

Im where i want to be.

Why is that so often in life we get disappointed,

We rush into things

Get our hopes up to be let down.

I know, i know its not good to always be negative or not give things a try

But

I have being disappointed

I hate that feeling of opening up to be shut down again

Maybe it best if i dont open up at all,

dont try new things

Keep myself to myself

Yes life isnt sweet like candy,

we have to feel disappointed at one point or the other

to learn from our mistakes

Am i just to nice or gullable

what is up with me, i think to myself

At times i wish life could be so much easier

you can plan things how you want

you wont ever have to be let down

Unfortunately it doesnt work like that

All i know is, i am Tired of feeling

DISAPPOINTED

So from now on, i will do everything

in my power to avoid that feeling

whatever i can do, shall be done.

Like Amy said is Love a Losing game??

Have you ever loved before and lost it. What does it mean to be in love, how does it feel to be in love?

Being in love can be a great feeling,

the good times you share

with that special someone

But

How do you know if you truly love that person.

Caring for someone a lot and loving them are not the same thing. You may feel like you love someone because you care for them immensely and put them above the rest etc....... but one day you may realise its not love. Some people find it easy to say "i love you" without meaning it. It just rolls of their tongue so nicely, there is no truth or emotion attached to those three little words that they utter. They just tell you what you would like to hear, or they say it for their own personal gain whatever that may be.

What is better, what would you rather have...

The feeling of being in love where life seems so perfect or not being in love because you dont want to get heartbroken??

Have you ever lost the one you love,

How

What happened, was it painful

Was it true love or just infatuation?

Is it better to love and loose it all or never to love at all...

hmmm

that is a tough one!!

I say dont ever fall in love with someone that doesnt love you back, dont give yourself false hope thinking they could love you one day. That would just be wasting your time and his. It is so easy to believe someone when they say i love you and you can easily become attached to them but you have to be smart about it. Let them prove they truly love you.

Actions Speak Louder Than Words, in my opinion.

I would rather experience true love and loose it than rather not love at all because i dont want to risk getting heartbroken. True love is something you cant explain with words unless you go through it yourself you would never know what it feels like to have that special someone that has eyes only for you, cares about you immensely, puts your first and so many other things....

So i say Love Isnt A Losing Game,

You have to play first and play to win

Because that is the only way to find out

If you will truly find love one day.

Friends

Friendship............... define that

How do you know who your true friends are?

It is so easy for people to act like they are your friend and say they will always be there for you and have your back at all times. When the time comes for them to have your back and be there for you, the time that tests your friendship they wont be there for you. You only see those so called "friends"  around you when the going is great fantastic, then they tag along with you wherever you go and are always there for you.

People can act really two-faced, yes we all know that but how do you really know who is genuine and who isnt. It is hard to tell sometimes you may think someone is your true friend for life but its all pretense. There is probabaly a reason why they are being so nice to you but you wont know. They have a hidden agenda.

How do you measure friendship?

To me a true friend is someone that will ALWAYS be there for you no matter what, is someone that will always be there for you and listen to your problems and also offer good advice. A person that will tell you when you are doing wrong and put you back on the right path. Someone that wont judge you or look down on you. A person that isnt out to get what they can from you and leave you hanging. Someone that cares about how you feel and respects you and knows how to compromise. I could go on but these are some of the qualities that a True Friend have.

I definetly feel you have to prove your friendship to whoever because real genuine, trustworthy people are hard to find these days. What is the most you would do for a friend, how far would you go for them. Do you draw the line at certain things you would do for a friend because if they were really your true friend you wont say right you have gone too far our friendship is over.

No friendship is easy going, there are hard times and they are great fun times which create memories whether good or bad. To me the difficult times show you who your friends really are because you can go out and have fun with acquantancies but when it comes down to it those faces wont be around when you need them. Call them up to go out with you and have a blast then you will see them appearing out of the woodworks.

Tell me can you measure friendship because i dont think you can...

There isnt a to do list you can tick off and say right they have passed my friendship test they can now be classified as a true friend. A friendship is built up over the years and if you are true friends no matter what obstacles you go through you will always come out on top together.

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Confusion.................

My mind says one thing, my body says another

Which should i listen to, i say

I dont know what to do, I am torn between the two

Which is right or wrong i dont know

But

I know what i want to do and then i think

Off all the possibilities

Good and bad

Why cant things be straight forward

Why do i have to contemplate first before making a decision

Why, does anybody know.....???

Should i go for it, try and see

I dont want to be let down again

I dont want to open up to be shut down

Thats life i guess, full of ups and downs

What to do, what to do

I say to myself repeatedly

Go with my gut instinct or think

Hard and plan ahead

Incase of any discrepancy

Life's a Bitch

You don't know who to trust, believe or give the benefit of the doubt

Its hard

A lot of times you can feel (confused.com)

Just deal with it i guess

Not everything is rosy but sometimes

You have to take a chance

Be like Nike

and

Just do it

Do it i say..............cos you never know what could come out of it

whether good or bad

Its an experience non the less but

Never be in a rush

Take your time, it will be worth it in the end..

Boys will be boys

people love to say

i hate that saying, what exactly do you mean by that

OOOH a boy can do something mean and heartless to you and people say boys will be boys

what do you mean that boys are allowed to do anything and get away with it

beacuse that's what that statement means to me.

Boy oh boy,

i dont get you boys sometimes

they say girls are so confusing but i think boys can be worse or just as bad

You never seem to know what you want, you like someone one minute, the next minute you dont like them

You are afraid of commitment, why is that??

Not every girl is trying to trap you or hold you down and make you her baby daddy.

Its like when you feel a girl is getting to close, you feel out of your comfort zone and start to ignore her and push her away. Unless you choose to have her there as the main girl but still have your other little sidekicks as a back up plan- Just Incase!!!

Boys will be boys haha

In one way that is true most boys even when they grow up to be "men"

Cant let go of their boyish mentality

Grown men with the logic of a little boy, still reasons like a boy, talks  and acts like one....

Why is that???

The sooner you realise the better........ you boys out there need to know you cant act like boys FOREVER

There is a time for everything and hanging on to your childish behaviour is not the way

No woman wants to be with a boy, she wants a real man

So fix up, look sharp and realise

Men attract women not boys trying to act as men.

Why is it that black people's hair is so tough to manage????

I mean just washing and drying your hair alone before straightening it takes a whole process. Wash, Condition, Comb hair out then blow dry hair. Then grease your scalp then straighten. All this takes well over an hour to do and by the time u finish doing your hair you feel so knackered. It so much easier to go to the hairdresser's but on the other hand it can be really expensive, sometimes you just cant be bothered to do all that yourself.

What amazes me sometimes is, most white people i know wash their hair like 3 0r 4 times a week. What! Their hair is so easy to maintain and they can go in the rain get it wet and dry it after and it will just go back to the way it was.

Black people cant do that, as soon as it rains you see us getting our umbrella's out before our hair turns into some Afro Puff. haha

Different races have different types of hair, even though black people's hair takes longer to do, i would rather have my hair because of the texture it has. Its not too flimsy and once you do all the things you have to do on your hair, you will be looking nice and fresh.

Everyone knows that balck people wear weaves but what baffels me is you see a lot of white people these days wearing weaves as well. Its not like they need it. their hair is naturally long so why go through that process of putting fake hair in??

Do you ever have one of those days, you get into a certain mood.

Just comes out of nowhere.

Like today, for no apparent reason whatsoever, I have been gigglin non stop.

All i have watched today is a funny video that was sent to me on facebook, that seems to have set me off.

Everyone at work has been wandering whats wrong with me today,

To be honest, nothing is just having a really good day today.

Take advantage of it while it lasts i say,

May not be feeling like this tomorrow. ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Have you ever had one of those days wether you are really happy, smiling a lot, angry for no apparent reason?

Why do we feel Happy, why do we feel Sad.

People can go through several emotions in a day.

When you wake up, you feel Grumpy

I dont wanna got to work, dont wanna get out of bed but you have no choice. The weather is awful and that gets your mood down. You feel Upset that its raining  when its meant to be sunny. The journey to work or school is taking longer than expected you start to get Angry.

I'm getting Bored of eating the same food from the same place day in, day out.

Why has life become so routine and so predictable, im starting to feel Worried. This isnt what my life should be like, this isnt me. I need change move on to newer and more fulfilling things. You are trying to work and you keep getting disturbed having to perform several tasks at once, you start to feel Frustrated.

The day has come to an end now, time to pack up and go home.

Wow, i have never felt so Relieved that its time to go. The pressure of work has got to me today and now i can look forward to making my journey home. No need to rush, cant wait to get home and eat, relax and watch tv so Excited about that.

We go through so many emotions daily, as you have seen i have written some emotions people can go through.

Like why do people smile at birth and cry at death, not eveyone may do that but the point is,

We cannot control our emotions, no matter how hard you try something's just cant be hidden.

It can be seen in your eyes, heard in your voice or even the way your body language is.

Is the lonliest number isnt it.

Its not nice being all alone,

No one to talk to,

No one to turn to.

People say three is a crowd but there are people that would rather have that crowd than have nobody at all.

You will never know the feeling of being lonely unless, you find yourself in that situation one day.

It not a nice place to be, feeling empty

Watching your life moving, with no one there to share your memories with.

Lonliness, the worst thing that could happen to someone,

You could have all the riches in the world and all the "frends" in this world and,

Still feel lonely.

Money wont take away that lonliness, material possesions,

Wont take away that lonliness

Having the ones you care about and knowing,

They care about you too is the best feeling ever.

I'm lonely, i feel empty

Nothing matters to me

Is that you at this point.......

Always remember, you may be feeling lonely now but,

It wont last forever,

We have our up and down moments in life,

Not everyone may experience lonliness in their life,

If you do just know, it wont last forever.